THINK
“Remembering produces a state called hesitation, and thinking leads to action” ~Richard Bandler If you want to learn how to think by design and take control of what you can learn, and maybe even surprise yourself by learning more than you thought possible, then you can learn NLP and Unlearn what you remember that stops you and move into the future that propels you...
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“You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough.” ~Frank Crane I often hear clients tell me they have “trust issues”. The ability to trust another rests in YOUR ability to predict ANOTHER’S behavior. In essence, to calibrate well enough, BEFORE they choose an action, so you can decide your response in advance. Then you will trust what makes good sense to trust and trust your decision NOT to trust...
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“A great spouse loves you exactly as you are. A UNIQUELY POWERFUL spouse helps you grow; inspires you to Be, Do and Give your very best.” Choosing the right spouse, brings you even more Freedom than you’d have on your own. This is the purpose of dating: To determine if a potential mate has enough of the right stuff, is evolved enough, whole enough and capable enough of the strength needed to add to your Freedom. It’s a rare find, that’s why a Bashert is called a...
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“STOP doing the things you like and START doing the things you don’t like, for a change” ~ Pam Castillo Some of the things people have liked in the past such as heroin, bad relationships, overeating, worrying have served only to create problems and prevent more desirable outcomes. On the other hand, some of things people have nOt liked in the past, such as exercise, lima beans, good advice, public speaking, the taste of wheat grass juice, etc. have prevented you from...
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“Worry is a misuse of the imagination” ~Dan Zadra In order to *worry*, you have to engage a specific mental process. That’s right, you actually have to do something inside your mind or the ability to *worry* or think most anything, just does nOt occur. It might seem as though you haven’t done anything and *worry* just pops into your head and lingers there. NOPE. Not the case. Guaranteed. What people do to *worry* is more often than not running just...
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“There are two ways to ascend: You can step upward, leaving one foot in its place as the other moves ahead. Or you can crouch down and leap. This is the true meaning of failure: Failure is not just a setback. Everything in life is a step forward, because everything has meaning. So too, failure: It is the crouch before the jump, the break away from the past so that we can leap into the future.” ~From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory. One of the NLP™...
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